Intimacy: the forbidden history of sex

What do we do with such an heritage on intimacy

Sex without orgasm as taught by some of our ancestors is not very appealing at first. Ladies can you imagine telling your partner, or worse a guy you fancy and just met:

“Dear let’s try this idea where we don’t make love for a little while” – at which point the man feels like the room is starting to spin or wants to take off immediately – “then we can make love but we do not have orgasms” – at which the man becomes deaf and catatonic!

Hum tricky, as I have many more to add in the coming blogs about the discovery of sex and real intimacy, let me finish this blog with some the benefits of orgasm avoidance our male ancestors found about.

The ancient Taoist claimed that loss of semen and blood caused depletion and taught that both sexes had the power to revitalize themselves by cultivating their sexual energy to avoid loss of vitality. So here we go, lets talk a language that men may understand.

Ladies look at your man as the athlete he is (of course) ready for everyday battle and reminds him that generally sex is avoided by top athletes before a competition for the following reasons:

• weakens energy, leaves you tired
• weakens the legs
• drains inner energy
• decreases aggression
• reduces testosterone.

But there is also the confusing argument in favor of sex:

• relaxes tensions
• increases focus
• releases more testosterone (potentially increasing performance)
• can boost performance psychologically – It’s only a psychological effect if at all, there’s no real performance loss.

So why such contradiction if any: Well maybe both statements actually complete one another and the common denominator is ejaculation: with in the first instance and without in the second case. Could sex without orgasm shape the ultimate warrior: Messieurs I leave it for you to think or to experiment!

More on intimacy: to be continuedSource:

Cupid’s poisoned arrow by Narmia Robinson

Excerpts from the Hua Hu Ching

Nag Hammadi Library